Parenting thing
terlalu banyak yang kepengen di omongin dan terngiang-ngiang di kepala tapi tiap mau ditulis suka lupa wae. this writing wasn't for people kok but this is for my self, as note.
iye gue egois. wkwk.
hanewey, setelah punya ponakan tetiba i interesting in parenting, not into the marriage thing but only in parenting. since i like to watch superman returns, some of the parents esp song il gook showed the good technique to handle the kids. he didnt do the voice raising or violnce which is good and fo sho i copied him. tenang pak dapet pahala :D so, with the lack technique of parenting i apply it to my nepwhew, the method is the counting 1-10 when kid do something appropriate.
in this case i believe we (?) can give the kids freedom but also show the apropriate way. so as the grow old they know the proper way. um back to the topic, and i did it. at first attempt it didn't work, he keep doing "something that wasn't good for him" i counted 1-10 many times, and after.... more or less 4 months he gives me a response.. "Upa.. mau dimakan ga? kalo ga dimakan oba ambil makanan nya. Oba itung sampe 10, 1... 2.... 3.... 4......" back then he won't listen to me and keep messing with his food, but now.. "Upa mau dimakan ga? kalo ga dimakan oba ambil makanannya, 1....2...3.." then he will eat it fast and leave it. OMG!!! i was so speechless and OSM! you know that counting makes him think, which is he already knows about the options. and please correct me if i wrong in apply that technique. and i learn we better apply the rule to kids when they 2. maybe they won't really understand but it will inlfluence their behavior as the grow. thanks il kook apaa :D time by day i interacting with upa i realized that iam a coleris .. and i afraid if i become the otoriter mom, and demand towards my kids. i scared that iam not a good mom in the future. i know it is still far and maybe i was over thinking but hopefully i could someone who that my kids can rely. and hopefully my future husband is a really calm and mature one. HELLOH LOOK AT ME... xD
oh btw my pc was broke so all my pict, (un) important files lost, my fanfictions lost.. AHAHAHHAHA T-T then....... ah forget,
i....... ahahhaa wish me luck for my thesis. hopefully you can fulfill your hope. aamiin. *na chorom* xD selamat hari minggu~~~~~
iye gue egois. wkwk.
hanewey, setelah punya ponakan tetiba i interesting in parenting, not into the marriage thing but only in parenting. since i like to watch superman returns, some of the parents esp song il gook showed the good technique to handle the kids. he didnt do the voice raising or violnce which is good and fo sho i copied him. tenang pak dapet pahala :D so, with the lack technique of parenting i apply it to my nepwhew, the method is the counting 1-10 when kid do something appropriate.
in this case i believe we (?) can give the kids freedom but also show the apropriate way. so as the grow old they know the proper way. um back to the topic, and i did it. at first attempt it didn't work, he keep doing "something that wasn't good for him" i counted 1-10 many times, and after.... more or less 4 months he gives me a response.. "Upa.. mau dimakan ga? kalo ga dimakan oba ambil makanan nya. Oba itung sampe 10, 1... 2.... 3.... 4......" back then he won't listen to me and keep messing with his food, but now.. "Upa mau dimakan ga? kalo ga dimakan oba ambil makanannya, 1....2...3.." then he will eat it fast and leave it. OMG!!! i was so speechless and OSM! you know that counting makes him think, which is he already knows about the options. and please correct me if i wrong in apply that technique. and i learn we better apply the rule to kids when they 2. maybe they won't really understand but it will inlfluence their behavior as the grow. thanks il kook apaa :D time by day i interacting with upa i realized that iam a coleris .. and i afraid if i become the otoriter mom, and demand towards my kids. i scared that iam not a good mom in the future. i know it is still far and maybe i was over thinking but hopefully i could someone who that my kids can rely. and hopefully my future husband is a really calm and mature one. HELLOH LOOK AT ME... xD
oh btw my pc was broke so all my pict, (un) important files lost, my fanfictions lost.. AHAHAHHAHA T-T then....... ah forget,
i....... ahahhaa wish me luck for my thesis. hopefully you can fulfill your hope. aamiin. *na chorom* xD selamat hari minggu~~~~~
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